不登校,ブログ,対処法,解決策,ノウハウ,知識不登校,ブログ,対処法,解決策,ノウハウ,知識

不登校は自分と向き合う良い機会 ~不登校がもたらす成長~

ゆーくろっくの土井です。   最近担当のお子様を見させて頂く中で、よく自分が不登校だった時代の様子を思い出します。   そして不登校の時代を思い出し、現在の自分を見ると、その当時に考えたことや、感じたことが今の自分を作っているということに気づきました。

孤独になることの重要性

不登校の子は多くの場合孤独で、自分の殻に閉じこもりがちです。一般的に孤独はよくないことと思われがちですが、一定の期間、孤独になることはむしろ必要であるとも言われています。   孤独になると、今まで以上に自分と向き合うことになります。   自分と向き合う中で、自分は一体何が好きで、これからどう生きていきたいんだろう?   など普段はなかなか考えないことを考えるキッカケになります。   これは将来の進路を考える上で非常に重要なことです。 自分に本気で向き合い、その中で気づいた自分の興味や関心は簡単にゆらぐことはありません。   その後エネルギーが回復し、不登校を克服した時に、その時気づけたことは、絶大な原動力となり、不登校になる前以上に成長し、ものすごいパワーで目標に向かって進んでいくことも珍しくありません。   以前紹介した本『不登校でも子は育つ』の中でも、「不登校経験を通して、知らないうちに養われていた大切なものがあった」という不登校経験者の言葉がみられました。

不登校のポジティブな面にも注目してみよう

不登校はすぐに解決できるものではありません。   (参考:不登校の回復期間への心構え~1ヶ月は1週間の気持ちで~)   どんなに順調でも数ヶ月は不登校の期間が続くと考えた場合、不登校のネガティブな面ばかりに目を向けると日々がしんどくなってしまいます。   時には不登校のポジティブな面にも目を向けてみることや、見方を変えてみることで、少し気持ちが楽になったり、不登校の経験をその後の人生のプラスに変えることもできます。

最後に

不登校は本人にとっても家族にとっても、つらい経験になりがちです。   しかし、その中でも養われていく力があります。   「学校に行かなくても子供はしっかりと成長している」   ということを心の何処かにとめて頂ければと思います。

261 comments on “不登校は自分と向き合う良い機会 ~不登校がもたらす成長~”

  1. Pingback: 不登校から将来を考える①〜社会は厳しいという不安〜

  2. Pingback: writeessay

  3. Pingback: Cialis tablets australia

  4. Pingback: Discount viagra

  5. Pingback: Viagra vs cialis

  6. Pingback: Viagra from canada

  7. Pingback: Cialis generic

  8. Pingback: Cialis from canada

  9. Pingback: Viagra 5 mg

  10. Pingback: Cialis online

  11. Pingback: Cialis prices

  12. Pingback: Cialis coupon

  13. Pingback: writeessay

  14. Pingback: Cialis 5 mg

  15. Pingback: Cialis coupon

  16. Pingback: Buy cialis online

  17. Pingback: Buy cialis online

  18. Pingback: new siriustube280 abdu23na1820 abdu23na27

  19. Pingback: new siriustube283 abdu23na6846 abdu23na41

  20. Pingback: newtube tube planet901 afeu23na8653 abdu23na52

  21. Pingback: download on mobile618 afeu23na4648 abdu23na12

  22. Pingback: tubepla601 afeu23na2689 abdu23na78

  23. Pingback: buy tadalafil pills

  24. Pingback: computer-arts.info

  25. Pingback: solars.biz

  26. Pingback: cialis 20mg

  27. Pingback: tadalafil 40 mg

  28. Pingback: cialis pills

  29. Pingback: cialis pills for sale

  30. Pingback: cialis tablets australia

  31. Pingback: cost cialis 20mg

  32. Pingback: generic cialis 20mg

  33. Pingback: generic cialis available

  34. Pingback: generic cialis tadalafil

  35. Pingback: generic cialis tadalafil uk

  36. Pingback: tadalafil generic

  37. Pingback: tadalafil generic best price

  38. Pingback: tadalafil without a doctor prescription

  39. Pingback: cialis generic

  40. Pingback: cialis generic name

  41. Pingback: cialis generic availability

  42. Pingback: cialis generic availability 2018

  43. Pingback: cialis generic prices

  44. Pingback: cialis generic tadalafil

  45. Pingback: cialis generic pharmacy

  46. Pingback: levitra generic

  47. Pingback: sildenafil citrate

  48. Pingback: levofloxacin 750 mg

  49. Pingback: viagra 100mg

  50. Pingback: sildenafil 100mg

  51. Pingback: azithromycin 250 mg

  52. Pingback: augmentin 875 mg

  53. Pingback: amiodarone 200 mg

  54. Pingback: lipitor generic

  55. Pingback: simvastatin 20 mg

  56. Pingback: best price for viagra

  57. Pingback: diflucan 150 mg

  58. Pingback: levitra 20 mg

  59. Pingback: viagra pills

  60. Pingback: cialis 20mg tablets prices

  61. Pingback: levitra 20mg best price

  62. Pingback: biaxin generic

  63. Pingback: biaxin antibiotic

  64. Pingback: cost of biaxin antibiotic

  65. Pingback: biaxin coupon

  66. Pingback: biaxin coupons

  67. Pingback: fluoxetine hcl

  68. Pingback: fluoxetine 20 mg

  69. Pingback: prozac generic

  70. Pingback: prozac medication

  71. Pingback: fluoxetine 10 mg

  72. Pingback: alprostadil

  73. Pingback: alprostadil price

  74. Pingback: buy cialis

  75. Pingback: cialis oral jelly

  76. Pingback: sildenafil 100mg coupon

  77. Pingback: buy viagra

  78. Pingback: cialis

  79. Pingback: viagra

  80. Pingback: cialis coupon

  81. Pingback: cialis 20mg

  82. Pingback: levitra

  83. Pingback: generic cialis

  84. Pingback: cialis online

  85. Pingback: tadalafil 5mg

  86. Pingback: tadalafil 20mg

  87. Pingback: viagra tablets

  88. Pingback: sildenafil

  89. Pingback: tadalafil

  90. Pingback: cialis dosage

  91. Pingback: cialis prices

  92. Pingback: cialis tablets

  93. Pingback: viagra vs cialis

  94. Pingback: viagra connect

  95. Pingback: viagra without doctor prescription

  96. Pingback: viagra natural

  97. Pingback: cialis without prescriptions

  98. Pingback: without a doctors prescription

  99. Pingback: cialis vs viagra

  100. Pingback: tadalafil 20 mg

  101. Pingback: cialis 20 mg

  102. Pingback: cialis 5 mg

  103. Pingback: cheap cialis

  104. Pingback: cialis coupons

  105. Pingback: cialis canada

  106. Pingback: generic viagra

  107. Pingback: viagra online

  108. Pingback: viagra prices

  109. Pingback: viagra generic

  110. Pingback: generic viagra 100mg

  111. Pingback: viagra coupons

  112. Pingback: generic viagra available

  113. Pingback: buy viagra online

  114. Pingback: viagra tablet

  115. Pingback: sildenafil 20 mg

  116. Pingback: sildenafil 100

  117. Pingback: buy biaxin

  118. Pingback: buy ceftin

  119. Pingback: buy chloromycetin

  120. Pingback: buy biaxin online

  121. Pingback: buy ceftin online

  122. Pingback: chloromycetin

  123. Pingback: buy cordarone

  124. Pingback: example.org.17

  125. Pingback: cialis 20mg generic

  126. Pingback: female viagra

  127. Pingback: sildenafil tablets

  128. Pingback: prednisone 20 mg

  129. Pingback: buy sildenafil

  130. Pingback: sildenafil generic

  131. Pingback: viagra doctor prescription

  132. Pingback: sildenafil 50 mg

  133. Pingback: sildenafil coupons

  134. Pingback: sildenafil 100 mg

  135. Pingback: sildenafil citrate 100mg

  136. Pingback: buy cialis online

  137. Pingback: cialis tadalafil

  138. Pingback: sildenafil citrate tablets

  139. Pingback: sildenafil citrate pricing

  140. Pingback: bactrim ds

  141. Pingback: ceftin antibiotic

  142. Pingback: cephalexin 500mg

  143. Pingback: ciprofloxacin 500mg

  144. Pingback: fluconazole 150 mg

  145. Pingback: levofloxacin 500 mg

  146. Pingback: cefdinir 300 mg

  147. Pingback: bactrim antibiotic

  148. Pingback: 100mg viagra without a doctor prescription

  149. Pingback: natural viagra

  150. Pingback: viagra on line

  151. Pingback: over the counter viagra

  152. Pingback: cheap viagra

  153. Pingback: female viagra pills

  154. Pingback: viagra for men

  155. Pingback: viagra for women

  156. Pingback: viagra without a doctor prescription

  157. Pingback: viagra without a doctor prescription usa

  158. Pingback: viagra medicine online order

  159. Pingback: viagra without doctor prescription usa

  160. Pingback: cialis generico

  161. Pingback: cialis generika

  162. Pingback: tadalafila

  163. Pingback: amitriptyline-hydrochloride

  164. Pingback: baclofen restoril

  165. Pingback: what is escitalopram generic for

  166. Pingback: can prednisone cause sulfer tasting burps

  167. Pingback: viagra canada

  168. Pingback: canadian pharmacies online prescriptions

  169. Pingback: global pharmacy canada

  170. Pingback: pharmacy canada

  171. Pingback: Viagra tablets australia

  172. Pingback: Viagra 5mg prix

  173. Pingback: Viagra generique

  174. Pingback: Viagra cost

  175. Pingback: Viagra generico online

  176. Pingback: Viagra 20 mg best price

  177. Pingback: Viagra 20mg

  178. Pingback: Viagra vs cialis

  179. Pingback: Cialis 20mg

  180. Pingback: Cialis generic

  181. Pingback: Buy cialis online

  182. Pingback: cialis cost

  183. Pingback: cialis cooupons

  184. Pingback: cialis free trial

  185. Pingback: atorvastatin

  186. Pingback: cymbalta

  187. Pingback: atorvastatin 10 mg

  188. Pingback: cymbalta dosage

  189. Pingback: cialis online pharmacy

  190. Pingback: atorvastatin 10mg

  191. Pingback: cymbalta for pain

  192. Pingback: cymbalta generic

  193. Pingback: levitra coupon

  194. Pingback: cymbalta medication

  195. Pingback: levitra dosage

  196. Pingback: cialis side effects

  197. Pingback: cymbalta reviews

  198. Pingback: cymbalta side effects

  199. Pingback: levitra vs viagra

  200. Pingback: buy generic cialis pills

  201. Pingback: cymbalta withdrawal

  202. Pingback: vardenafil

  203. Pingback: duloxetine

  204. Pingback: vardenafil 20 mg

  205. Pingback: duloxetine 20 mg

  206. Pingback: vardenafil 20mg

  207. Pingback: duloxetine hcl

  208. Pingback: duloxetine side effectss

  209. Pingback: duloxetine 60 mg

  210. Pingback: Generic viagra

  211. Pingback: Viagra 20mg prix en pharmacie

  212. Pingback: Viagra for sale

  213. Pingback: buy cialis generic tadalafil

  214. Pingback: augmentin

  215. Pingback: levaquin

  216. Pingback: augmentin 875

  217. Pingback: levaquin 500 mg

  218. Pingback: buy levitra

  219. Pingback: levaquin 750 mg

  220. Pingback: cheap levitra

  221. Pingback: buy levitra online

  222. Pingback: augmentin and alcohol

  223. Pingback: levaquin antibiotic

  224. Pingback: generic levitra

  225. Pingback: levaquin dosage

  226. Pingback: augmentin dosage

  227. Pingback: buy viagra no rx

  228. Pingback: levaquin for uti

  229. Pingback: buy viagra cheap

  230. Pingback: buy viagra online safely

  231. Pingback: augmentin dose

  232. Pingback: levaquin lawsuit

  233. Pingback: augmentin for dogs

  234. Pingback: cialis 20mg tablet prices

  235. Pingback: levaquin renal dose

  236. Pingback: levitra prices in usa pharmacy

  237. Pingback: levitra kopen zonder recept

  238. Pingback: levitra 20mg

  239. Pingback: generic levitra 10mg

  240. Pingback: augmentin for uti

  241. Pingback: levitra cost

  242. Pingback: levaquin side effects

  243. Pingback: augmentin side effects

  244. Pingback: levaquin uses

  245. Pingback: augmentin uses

  246. Pingback: what is levaquin

  247. Pingback: augmentin vs amoxicillin

  248. Pingback: generic levitra 20mg

  249. Pingback: side effects augmentin

  250. Pingback: levitra online

  251. Pingback: what is augmentin

  252. Pingback: levitra prices

  253. Pingback: cialis pharmacy

  254. Pingback: levitra recviews

  255. Pingback: levitra side effects

  256. Pingback: levitra vs cialis

  257. Pingback: cialis without a doctor prescription

  258. Pingback: vardenafil generic

  259. Pingback: vardenafil hcl 20mg

  260. Pingback: what is levitra

  261. Pingback: price of levitra 20 mg

Comments are closed.